Fifty Shades of Grey Chapter 7: “The Red Room”

Finally we arrive at some real BDSM material.  After shoving an NDA under her nose, Christian Grey throws our heroine headlong into his red-leather playroom.  It’s stocked with what must be a California King Bed (this is one place leather DOES NOT belong, no one wants to get sex juice stains on leather, or sleep on leather sheets for that matter), a St. Andrews Cross, and all manner of percussion/impact implements and toys.

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Spring 2014 Blogworthy Events

Hey readers, sorry for the break in regular postings, college and work has been kicking my ass but there’s been a bit of a lull in my workload so I will have a little more time lately to make more posts.  So iamthesexfairy and I have spent this cruel Winter planning out a list of kinky events which will give us both plenty to post about.  Here’s a preview:

First and foremost will be Midori’s 2 Day Rope Dojo event March 29th-30th.  This will be a two day intensive rope bondage event held at The Crucible in DC.  They only happen 3-4 times a year, and do not come to the East coast very often.  Both iamthesexfairy and I will have so much to write about after two days of nothing but rope instruction, as well as the Crucible Mayhem on M Street Party that saturday night.

Next, the weekend of April 12th-13th will be The Crucible’s Slumber Party.  Kind of self-explanatory but still going to be tons of fun.

And finally, we’ll be kicking off the summer with a week of non-stop kinky debauchery at Camp Crucible! May 24th-June 1st  This will be both of our first times at this event.  The 9 day, 8 night marathon will be nothing like anything either of us have ever experienced and which we will probably never forget.


Fifty Shades of Grey Chapters 5 & 6: “The Buildup”

Not much reeeeally happens in these two chapters.  Anastasia awakes the morning after her drunken night of clubbing in Christian Grey’s hotel suite. Genius that she is, the first thing that she does after waking up in the strange hotel room of a man she hardly knows, is take the “Advil” with the glass of “water” he leaves on her bedside table. In the end we find out that it is actually Advil and water, but each and every one of my mentors would have given me a brutal thrashing for tossing back a few random mystery pills after a drunken night out. It’s simply irresponsible.
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Suppository submission (Caution: Messy Play Ahead)

So something you’ll learn about me soon is that I have a tolerance for some really edgy and “out-there” methods of play. This weekend, I got up to a little diaper-play and toyed around with something totally new. Bisacodyl may not sound too familiar, but I bet many of you know what suppository laxatives are. Thankfully this weekend’s use of suppository laxatives was not necessary and simply just recreational.
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Journal Entry III: “…on each other’s Team” Some Heavy Feels

Hello readers, so my last post was rather… bitchy, I know.  So I’m going to remedy that by posting something more substantive and meaningful.  Some of the elements of this post may seem unclear but I ask that you bare with me to the end.

Today I discovered “Team” by New Zealand singer Lorde.  After binging on the song and looking up the lyrics, a lot of feels came to the surface.  What I drew from the song is sticking with your buds in the face of hostile and rough social scenes.  I empathized with a lot of the lyrics in particular.  The Chorus reads:

“We live in cities you’ll never see on screen
Not very pretty, but we sure know how to run things
Living in ruins of the palace within my dreams
And you know, we’re on each other’s team”

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Fifty Shades of Grey Chapters 3 & 4: “Truly A Class Act”

Things are starting to speed up for our heroine in Chapters 3 and 4.  In the aftermath of the encounter at the hardware store, Anastasia and Kate arrange a photoshoot with Mr. Grey the following day at a swanky hotel in downtown Portland.  This is then followed up by an unintelligible coffee date between Ana and Grey, the completion of Ana and Kate’s finals, and a wild night of revelry. Continue reading

Humiliation: A Balancing Act Between Cruelty and Love

Lately I’ve been contemplating developing my skill with verbal and practical humiliation both in private and in public.  Humiliation, belittlement, degradation in public and in private are  all pervasive in BDSM to a certain extent.  All Dominants engage in some act that belittles or reduces their submissives.  Players use diminutive titles and nicknames when referring to submissives all the time (boy, girl, slave, pet, slut, etc…).  Submissives may be required to engage in certain acts in the presence of their Dominants, such as kneeling or as human furniture (e.g. a double-whammy: you have been sentenced to 30 hours in a shameful sandwich board).,r:68,s:0,i:294&iact=rc&page=4&tbnh=179&tbnw=240&start=65&ndsp=25&tx=189&ty=92

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Fifty Shades of Grey Chapter 2: “Mr. Grey Goes to the Store”

Chapter 2 finds our heroine running from the botched interview in a tizzy, having some words with her lousy roommate, and a less-than-graceful run-in with the “epitome of male beauty,” Mr. Grey at Ana’s hardware store.

Still striking is Ana’s abysmal self-esteem.  Girl needs to stop wallowing in her own self-pity and grow a pair.  Even her roommate Kate is described as “arching a perfect eyebrow” during conversation, while still too infirm to leave the house.  Later on, she seems a little less believable when she describes her best-friend Jose’s tall, dark, muscular features with loving detail, and then pretty much finishes with “but he’s just my friend.” (Said no girl EVER!) Continue reading